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Wishes for the Heart
Thank you for visiting "Wishes for the Heart." We hope you enjoy the site.
Wishes are written to inspire and love, to encourage and support. Each week we will post a Wish and I, Tricia LaVoice, will blog regularly on the subject matter. My dear friend, Barbara Lazaroff, who is the queen of getting things done, will compliment the Wish by offering her own thoughts and "actions."
With Mother's Day on the horizon, the Wishes we will post and the themes we will discuss, will center around supporting mothers. Although we hope you share the Wishes with your own mother, we offer them as our support to all mothers. We hope that you will also share them with your mother friends. Welcome to the "Wishes for the Heart" blog! We look forward to getting to know you all!
“Dandelion, Dandelion, with my breath I set you free to travel the four corners of the world where hope creates change and change makes dreams come true.”Archives
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Wishes in the Media
We’ve been extremely busy letting as many people as possible know about Wishes. Below you can find a few links from our recent interviews.
Huffington Post: Wishes for Mother’s Heart -Mother’s Day blog entry http://www.huffingtonpost.com/barbara-lazaroff/mothers-day_b_858131.html
Hay House Interview: (Available for a short time only) http://bit.ly/iUXxUv
HealYourLife.com Book Bite: http://bit.ly/kFKJ7V
2 Minutes with Betsy and Renee on KFWB- live from the LA Times Festival of Books: http://bit.ly/iX5pwv
Barbara on BigMediaUSA.com: http://www.bmbc.tv/episodes/575
ReadingIsFashionable.com Author Interview: http://bit.ly/ljgsWI
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Leeza Gibbons on Larry King, 8pm
Tonight, at 8:00 pm, our beautiful friend Leeza Gibbons will be on Larry King, sharing her mother’s battle with Alzheimer’s Disease. When her mother, Jean, was diagnosised with Alzheimer’s Leeza family already knew how horrific the disease could be. Jean’s own mother had passed from it. Although Jean knew the disease would take over her mind, turning her into someone she was not, she still asked Leeza to tell her story for the sake of others. This courageous women put aside any worries of judgement or humiliation so she could help others who face similar struggles. I can only think about how different the world would be if we could all live so heroic. I was privileged to spend time with Leeza ‘s mother days before she lost her battle, and that experience changed my life.
Leeza and I had spoke about her mother many times, so I felt comfortable asking her if I could visit her. It was just something I felt deep inside of me that I had to do. With approval fom Leeza, I traveled to her hometown, in South Carolina, where her mother still lived. Although she wasn’t able to speak a word to me, or look in my eyes, I could feel how much love she had in her heart. I laid at the foot of her on the bed and her overwhelming strength made me feel incredibly safe. When our time together was over I
kissed her good-bye. I was honored to have met a woman whose story would make a difference forever. But, I was saddend to know that this would be our only time together. On my way home I wrote this Wish for Jean.
They call her Jeepers, a name she inherited some sixty years ago.
When I entered her room, I was moved by emotion; words could not
prepare me for her disturbing condition as she slumped uncomfortably
in her chair. Feeling uncomfortable in my own skin, I spoke quietly to
her, but her vacant stare offered no response. I traveled far to be in her
presence, inspired by her story. It had been many years since the thief
we call Alzheimer’s crept into her life, robbing her of everything, only
leaving the physical to endure endless suffering—leaving no hope, no
cure, and devastating those who loved her so dearly. Here she breathed,
living in misery, stripped of her dignity, yet no one I had met before her
was more deserving of self-respect or the respect of others. She had witnessed
the vicious crimes of her disease in her own mother before her.
She was aware that a stranger would enter her mind, diminishing her
grace before she would vanish altogether into her own silence. She was
fully aware of it all, yet she asked her family, for the sake of finding a
cure, to tell her story.
Footage of her demise has been witnessed by countless people,
awakening the need for change; her selfless courage to make a difference
has done just that, made a difference. . . . Her caretakers moved her to
the bed and she immediately curled into a fetal position as if desperately
trying to return to a place of warmth and safety. I moved to the bed with
her and curled at her feet. Over time a peace, a comfort, overtook me.
There I read to her, I rubbed her aching body, and sang her a lullaby.
In those moments, I fell in love with this great woman, honored by the
opportunity to show my gratitude. For you, I wish the dignity of Jeepers.
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from Barbara: Birth Day Wishes for a Mother’s Heart & Timely Life Moment
Today our book Wishes for a Mother’s Heart is officially released by our publisher Hay House.
I know how excited my co-author, more importantly my dear friend Tricia LaVoice, is today as I am as well.
The release coincides with my elder son’s thesis submission, he called me last evening to ask if I would ‘check the grammar’ before he sent it to his professor. I asked how long it was; it was 70 pages, a years work, or more accurately his almost 22 years of life.
All those moments of repeating words to him when he was an infant, all the books read, often over and over because he had, as most children do, two or three favorites, until he had them memorized and would “read” along with me. All those times we went over his spelling words, “Cameron, my mom used to tell me this is the only test you should always get a perfect grade on because you know all the answers beforehand!” All the sentences we wrote with those new magical words, and all the years of late night essay writing. Today my son submits his thesis on James Bradley and the Aberration of Light and Nutation, (not mutation, nutation), I had to look the word up, not unlike all those times I said, “Cameron use the dictionary!” This paper is as he said last evening, “only a brief history of the subject of light”. I asked, “Will you publish this?” He told me no, but it will go into the library at Tufts and one day he may use it as a basis for more thorough history of the subject, “there’s really no definitive book on this subject”. So we spoke of his future dissertation, and the idea of writing “a tome on the history of light”, and I found my mind and heart wandering back to my son in his bassinet before he could turn, before I could imagine what he would imagine himself doing with the life that was now before him. I also found myself realizing that yes, I am proud, and yes I finally feel that he is happier and more directed in his life, and that he’s ready to fly. There was both an immense joy and a great deal of nostalgia, but mostly the best Mother’s Day gift I could ever have received. He had called because he wanted to share with me, his mom, this immense moment of accomplishment in his life. This time, as the last, when he asked me to review the first twenty pages of his thesis, (with mathematical computations far exceeding my comprehension), he didn’t truly need me to do so, he just wanted to let me know he was doing something he truly loved, and doing it quite well at that!
So today as Wishes for a Mother’s Heart is birthed to the public, Tricia and I want to share our “baby” with you, never forgetting that the reason we could produce these words of love, support, and both women’s and mother’s wisdom, is that we have weathered the challenges and gifts of being mothers and women who support other women in our lives. Enjoy the messages from our heart and our gift of friendship to you.
A Pair of Shoes Can Go Along Way!
Blake Mycoskie, “chief shoe giver,” founder of Tom’s shoes, created the company to provide shoes for needy children around the globe. Children get serious, even life threatening, diseases without shoes. They must walk for miles and miles for clean water. Also, many children are denied an education because they cannot attend school without shoes. Blake is helping to change children’s lives. A pair of shoes makes a huge difference! He’s given away over a million! I have a pair, very comfortable. He’s a lovely guy who gave up many of his material possessions and lives on a boat docked in LA! Xx. Barbara
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Summit at Sea
The speed networking was exhausting, but exhilarating at the same time. I met fascinating people in all areas of business, philanthropy, venture capital people, startups, performers. Etc. Richard Branson just said something that cracked me up. They asked how did you just call someone up and say “I want to buy a 747?” He explained it and the company selling it said “Well, with a name like Virgin.. I hope your company goes all the way!” Now he’s explaining, “if you are a true entrepreneur you learn not micro-manage. After the company gets big, you have to learn the art of delegation, so you can spend time creating other business, so you can be at home with the kids and wife.” Oh and how could I forget! He’s addressing concerns of the working moms. “There aren’t enough companies that understand the necessity of more time for moms (for the children) and more free time for employees… They perform better, are happier and are more loyal” - Barbara
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Hay House-NYC
It is a funny thing… and a fantastic thing, to discover how many people write privately as an outlet to their daily lives. Since signing with Hay House, many people have shared with me their writing, and their desires to get published. Yesterday, I was in Manhattan to go over some last minute details with the Hay House-New York team . I caught a cab on 57th and Park Ave heading south. The cabbie was a wonderful, very chatty young man. Desperate for conversation he asked me endless questions. Where are you going? What are you doing there? Why are you doing that? And so on. I found his quizzical nature amusing and provided him with some conversation to break up his day. When I said I was going to Hay House he got so excited and pulled out his little brown book that held his heart’s desires… Poetry at its finest. He began reading me his work and asking me again and again, “you get it, you get it?” Honestly, all I got was nervous as he drove and read to me at the same time. Trying to sound delighted and impressed, I suggested he watch the road a few times. But, he was so excited to have an audience that I do not think he heard me. When he got me to my destination safely we said our goodbyes as fellow writers. It was great!
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